• surewhynotlem@lemmy.world
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    8 months ago

    Supervision? All the time? Found the guy without kids.

    Sure sure, you make a point. But kids are 24 god damn 7 and occasionally I need to do things like chores and cooking. They get tablets so I can survive. I did remove YouTube, but their school didn’t.

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            8 months ago

            And look how that turned out.

            If you want to sing wheels on the bus with your kids for that five hour car ride, more power to you. You’re a stronger mind than I. My kids are getting tablets.

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              8 months ago

              I think it worked perfectly. I have the perfect combination of self loathing and confidence to be a high earning professional who also believes that humans are wicked and should pursue our own extinction, so as to protect our non existent children from the inevitability of human suffering. Plus, my executive functioning is barely holding on even without early age screen time.

              Also it leaves me lots of time to care for them as they age. Win win.

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                8 months ago

                my executive functioning is barely holding on even without early age screen time.

                I had a screen since I was 6 in the 80s. An apple 2e. It turns out that screens are great for calming autistic ADHD folks. It’s why many of us end up in IT. But I’m guessing it’s why my exec function isn’t horrible. Imagine living screen free all day??

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      8 months ago

      When I have kids I will allow them to go on the Internet, but I will teach them about where to find good content and stuff like that.

      They will ultimately have to learn how to do this anyway, so its better to teach them early.

      And I dont want to completely block their internet access because their classmates will have it too and it sucks to be the only one who doesnt, you just dont fit in quite as well and arent able to talk about stuff from the internet if you dont know anything about it. (I am speaking from experience)

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      8 months ago

      When I was little, in such situations I was occupied either with toys or DVDs. The only difference my child would have is that DVDs would be replaced by hard drives with content I curate for them.

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      8 months ago

      It’s funny yeah everyone knows exactly how to raise kids until they have their own.

      My parents were obsessive never letting us watch anything violent, the only way you’d tell the difference between me and my buddy that watched them all is I do a little worse than most at pop culture pub quiz rounds. I really don’t think humans are as fragile as some people assume, playing on a tablet isn’t going to melt anyone’s brain.