• Tinidril@midwest.social
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    5 months ago

    The fact that someone’s gender makes a difference is part of that “social wound” they mentioned.

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      5 months ago

      of course it makes a difference. that’s how power dynamics work. i think it’s very rich to complain about people being fragile while demonstrating peak fragility that you can’t just show porn to people who don’t consent to it.

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        5 months ago

        Where did I advocate for open porn in the workplace? My only point was that it’s a sign of societal issues that there would be a gender based difference in how people see the issue. That’s not anti-woman, it’s just pointing out broader issues.

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          5 months ago

          i didn’t say you were doing it. i was talking about the comment you referenced. seemed obvious.