FYI, your Z-offset is really meaningless here. You have to calibrate the gap between your nozzle and bed, and you have to calibrate that for all four corners of the bed to be identical. THEN you have to determine if your bed is truly flat or if the center of the bed is higher/lower than the corners. And before starting any of that calibration, you need to make sure the springs under all four corners are tight (usually within 1 turn of completely closed) and then adjust your Z switch to match that position, otherwise you’ll be re-leveling your bed after every few prints. (It occurs to me your machine may not actually HAVE a Z switch, but you still want the springs compressed pretty tightly.)

Yes yes, you have auto bed leveling built into your printer. Sorry to tell you, that doesn’t really mean anything except you have to wait for it to calibrate before every print, when if you just learn to calibrate it manually then you shouldn’t have to touch it again except maybe checking it every 6-12 months. In reality an ABL can only compensate so much, and if your bed isn’t level to begin with then the ABL calibration will cause your printer to be constantly adjusting the Z axis for each layer and your prints won’t be as smooth as they could be, and might not even be as strong. You want the bed to be level with the printer frame so that ideally the Z axis should never have to adjust when printing each layer.

As for your goal in the nozzle gap… If your first layer is 0.20mm thick then you want a little squish, so you’re probably going to be shooting for around 0.15mm of actual gap. This is where a set of digital calipers comes in handy. Find one of the many first-layer test prints and give that a run (you probably need to find out how to disable your ABL for this). After it prints, you should have five small circles or squares in the corners and center. Measure the thickness of each, and look closely at them. Notice the individual strands of filament running through each piece. Can you see gaps between these strands? Can you pull it apart in your fingers? Then your nozzle gap is too large and the nozzle should be closer to the bed. Alternatively, is the piece solid, but very rough on the top? If so, your nozzle is likely too close to the bed. Your goal here is to get test prints that are smooth on top but will not come apart. When you have manually calibrated your bed leveling correctly, the ABL should calculate a Z offset of nearly zero.

My quick estimate of what is causing problems with your prints sticking so badly to the bed – The nozzle is way too close to the bed, so close that the ABL cannot compensate, and the heat is literally fusing the filament with the bed. I can also see where you’ve had to scrape previous prints so hard to get them loose that you left marks in the bed, which is another sign that the gap was too small. Yeah it may be a lost cause at this point, but that’s why beds are replaceable. Learn what mistakes you made and ask questions sooner with the next bed. There is a huge learning curve to get started with 3D printing and you will certainly make other mistakes as you go – don’t worry, we all do it – but you can avoid some things by reading a lot of posts in these groups to see where others failed. Until you reach the level of physically modifying your printer, damaging the bed will likely be one of the worst things that happens (I destroyed my original controller board because I changed one of the steppers and forgot to modify the wire). Hang in there, you’ll get it figured out!