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    2 days ago

    See that takes all the fun out of BDSM.

    If she has to submit to me then it’s not a willing exchange of power and it removes the pleasure of gaining control where you have none (or I suspect the opposite is true for subs - the pleasure of giving up control that you have to maintain).