Text translation: “I finish work at 6 pm today. I want the food to be warm when I get home. And don’t forget to put that movie I told you about on the USB, I want to watch it after getting in bed”.
Text from today. I’m expected to cook all of his meals, do his laundry, iron his clothes, do the grocery shopping, clean the house, run any errands he needs, etc. basically all of the housework, he won’t do anything even when he doesn’t go to work. I love him but it becomes mildly infuriating at times, especially when I have to sync my life with his schedule. At least he takes good care of me financially.
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Daddy might get violent when you say no…
Either way, I am not sure why you would expected to do any of this shit for a grown ass man.
Tell him to warm his own damn food lol
Keep thay brass on hand in case he get rowdy haha these type don’t take no very well
When I really can’t do it cause I’m too busy with something he literally calls my grandma over to do the housework for him. She’s in her 60s. This man has never taken care of himself. Until marriage it was my grandma, then it was my mom, now it’s me apparently.🫠
I am not sure what the bigger picture is but based on the facts provided, you gonna need to cut this shit sooner or later.
Serving other people like this will stifle your own development. Young people should be out there figuring out how the world works and developing themselves not serving adults cosplaying a child.
Just an opinion tho
I’m gonna do it once I’m done with university and get a well paying job.
Be aware that if you’re keeping up taking care of him, someday it may be in his best interests to keep you from excelling on your own. Please be wary of anything that could sabotage your life plans, and have contingency plans ready. Best of luck ♥️
Offer grandma to go halfsies on the household chores if you can move in with her?
That is behavior of a child, not a man. An adult can take care of themselves.
I do agree with the comment further up though - if he’s housing and providing financially for you while you are in school, consider it a part time job you are doing for the money. Keep asking him for grocery money and put some away in the bank for you.
Yes his mom shouldn’t have to do this stuff for him, but if she’d taught him right he’d have been doing it for himself all these years.
I guess the one positive thing about his “whores” is that he won’t be trying to get you to take your mother’s place in bed. If he catches a disease, at least it can’t hurt your mom now.
Being stuck at home sucks, but I understand you need the financial support to get through university. Do whatever you can to ensure you have a good job lined up before you graduate so you can move out.
Any guys you might want to get involved with, bring them home to test, and eliminate any who don’t tell you, unsolicited, how wrong he is, and set an example by helping you.